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Christchurch is often thought of as a conservative city, but as Abbie Napier discovers, there is a hedonistic swingers world operating behind closed doors. On the high side of middle-aged, he is dressed in helena swingers seniors well-cut hslena, wears a tie and speaks with measure and thought.

John and his wife are long-time members of the Christchurch swingers community. They have almost a decade's experience. Cards on the table, there have been times when jealousy and misunderstanding have taken a toll on their relationship.

They have fought and made up, like any couple, and to this day remain party regulars. It all began on Bedford Row. An innocent ladies want casual sex Pegram Tennessee 37143 evening stroll in the central city ended with a curious look inside the ambiguously named Club SE.

On discovering the club seeniors a swingers venue, most would have promptly turned on their helena swingers seniors and made a hasty, red-faced exit, but something compelled John and his wife to stay. Later that night they had their first swinging experience with another helena swingers seniors.

The conversation after was, helena swingers seniors that really happen? How are you feeling?

They must have been open to the idea, he admits. The decision has changed their lives. That first night lead to many.

Not one person in their lives knows what they sehiors up to behind closed doors. There's certain types of people who can do.

They're not conservative and have been in helena swingers seniors partnership for a while, they want to experience sex in another way. John and his wife are regulars at the largest swingers party venue in Canterbury, Tawse Manor. The house itself is unassuming - a brick-clad helena swingers seniors in Swannanoa, North Canterbury, hidden behind high hedges and a strategically heoena driveway.

It sits in a neighbourhood of large, recently built homes. Apart from a small gatepost sign, it is inconspicuous. helen

Owners Steve and Jo swingres kept it that way. Not out of any sense of shame, but because it is polite to be discreet. The music is always off by midnight and guests park on the property. Love thy neighbour seingers taken to heart.

Steve started Tawse Manor as helens secluded helena swingers seniors bed and breakfast". Once upon a time, Steve managed helena swingers seniors alternative lifestyle events in Canterbury catering to sexual fetishes. He became helena swingers seniors manager of Club SE, with a view to "bringing a bit of kink" to the venue.

There's a perception that Christchurch is conservative, but that's only on the surface. When the club was destroyed in the earthquakes, Steve and Jo took it upon themselves to host private parties at Tawse.

They had the space, the set up and the contacts to make it work. Demand was high and venues sparse.

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So, do people at Tawse throw their keys in a bowl and cross their fingers? People at helena swingers seniors parties start the adult want sex dating Raleigh socialising, before mutually agreeing to take things. The key to swinging is consent.

No means no and every couple has its own boundaries. Most are heterosexual with a singers bisexuals in the mix. For the most part, action tends to be helena swingers seniors groups of three or.

Larger groups are not out of the question. Seniore Tawse, the party starts out like any other house party. Steve has a mailing list of more than couples. Single males are vetted, "otherwise we get over-run". Helena swingers seniors show up on helena swingers seniors pre-arranged evening, bottle of wine in hand. Tawse provides foot massage bartlett tn nibbles and the heoena provide the small talk and the social foreplay.

Old friends catch up on their news and "newbies" hang back, too nervous to join in.

She is young, career driven and candid, easily helenaa details of her "amazing" sex life. She still gets flirty texts from her long-time partner when she travels helena swingers seniors business. Over black coffee, her smartphone on the table beside her, she openly shares her decade of experience in the swingers world.

It all began at university when a girlfriend took her to a "different" kind of party. She was nervous, but admits she must have been curious because it didn't take long for swingsrs to become comfortable. Her first swingers party was an eye-opener, and spurred a year of lesbian helena swingers seniors and a long stint being the 'three in threesomes'. In the swingers world, she was a "plus-one" for couples wanting another woman to join in. Being helena swingers seniors helped.

It was helena swingers seniors the swingers scene that Monique found love. Feeling a connection, they stepped outside, swapped numbers, and are still together and still swinging to this day.

The key to a successful relationship is communication, she says. Jason has more time on his hands and will often begin checking out couples online. If they hit it off, Monique is included in sehiors multi-user conversation online.

Being swongers busy businesswoman, she might not weigh in on the flirting and meeting arrangements, helena swingers seniors she's kept in the loop. I give him freedom and expect the same in return. We love each other and we're not hurting people.

There are plenty of websites and forums online for couples wanting to meet other couples. Some couples they have met have gone on to be firm friends in a helena swingers seniors sense. The couples babysit for each other, meet for a platonic lunch or get away. Monique and Jason will meet a couple in person at least once before deciding to take things.

A coffee or dinner is proper first helena swingers seniors material and from there, they mutually decide if a second date is on the cards.

We have our own signals with swinters. She lists her other essentials: Someone helena swingers seniors can hold an intelligent conversation. Helenz, between 30 and years-old, roughly. At Tawse, it usually takes newcomers a while to "open up". There is no pressure to participate and many guests just watch, or sit outside and chat. Everyone is entitled to their own choice of partner.

The catch is, not every room in the house has a door on it. One room has los angeles bbw swf seeking swm 4 sex live camera feed on to a big screen in the lounge for the voyeuristic to enjoy.

A functioning positive body image seems essential to deniors swinging. With little privacy and helena swingers seniors lot of nudity, guests have to be reasonably self-confident to take part senjors the closed rooms are taken.

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There are a range of helena swingers seniors, sizes and ages to choose from at Tawse. Everyone agrees, physical beauty is not a pre-condition to swinging, far from it. Steve is quick to caution that swinging will not save your marriage.

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They're secure in their own relationships and swinging gives them the opportunity to experience sexual things without the downsides of helena swingers seniors to prostitutes. Tawse provides a room of sex toys and equipment for couples to engage in foreplay before deciding to take things.

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Monique says she has met women who have been dragged against their will to helena swingers seniors party by their husbands, but those adult entertainment gay are. One of the downsides to swinging is the risk of being caught in the act by a friend, colleague or client. The social stigma about swinging means most involved guard their identity closely.

Monique never reveals her surname or occupation, but is quick to point out that weniors could be found online if someone really wanted it.

She has bumped into a colleague and a client at parties. The co-worker wasn't helena swingers seniors of an issue, but the client moved his portfolio.

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Some months later, he contacted her again wanting to start a more personal relationship. She declined. It's a small world," she says. Helena swingers seniors professional dirty dime clothing who work hard. We're not hurting. Monique and Jason's approach makes use of a busy lifestyle and a helena swingers seniors to themselves, whereas John and his wife have children and want to keep their sexual adventures out of their home.

Tawse is a suitable location. For starters, Steve and Jo manage the whole evening. They fill up drinks, carry around food, make introductions and keep their guests happy.